Comments on: Forgiveness of a Person http://cyrildason.com/2009/12/18/forgiveness-of-a-person/ the culture, the life & the job Wed, 28 Jul 2010 13:32:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Robin http://cyrildason.com/2009/12/18/forgiveness-of-a-person/comment-page-1/#comment-2368 Robin Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:43:39 +0000 http://cyrildason.com/?p=3016#comment-2368 Forgiveness does not come easy. It is one of the hardest lessons in life I presume, to forgive others, to ask for forgiveness, and also to forgive ourselves. I guess pride is inevitably there for everyone, and it is the largest obstruction to the flow of forgiveness. I also believe that forgiveness does not come without pain. It will definitely hurt. That is why it is easier to hate and not forgive, rather than facing the pain. Happiness is subjective. Some people feed their happiness on other people's misery. As scary as that sounds it is true. I find forgiveness to be one of my weaknesses, but of course, I am working my best to do what I can. Hence I can relate to your entry. <strong>[Cyril] <em>Yeah.. that's scary, I mean when people feed on other's misery. I hope I do not know people of this sort.</strong></em> Forgiveness does not come easy. It is one of the hardest lessons in life I presume, to forgive others, to ask for forgiveness, and also to forgive ourselves.
I guess pride is inevitably there for everyone, and it is the largest obstruction to the flow of forgiveness.
I also believe that forgiveness does not come without pain. It will definitely hurt. That is why it is easier to hate and not forgive, rather than facing the pain.
Happiness is subjective. Some people feed their happiness on other people’s misery. As scary as that sounds it is true.
I find forgiveness to be one of my weaknesses, but of course, I am working my best to do what I can. Hence I can relate to your entry.

[Cyril]
Yeah.. that’s scary, I mean when people feed on other’s misery. I hope I do not know people of this sort.

]]> By: The Mad Penguin http://cyrildason.com/2009/12/18/forgiveness-of-a-person/comment-page-1/#comment-2367 The Mad Penguin Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:09:54 +0000 http://cyrildason.com/?p=3016#comment-2367 I love this post. Well said, and absolutely agree with you. After a while, I think we'll actually find out that forgiveness IS the easiest thing to do. There's no use tainting your heart and being with grudges, because it'll only hurt us and no one else. We think we're hurting the other person by holding grudges, when in fact the other person would not care less...and we're the only one suffering! Hatred takes too much precious energy. "For me, the utmost thing in life is to find your own happiness…. and hope that others will be happy that you have obtained your happiness." Bingo. <strong>[Cyril] <em>Thanks for the compliment. Yay!! BINGO! =)</strong></em> I love this post. Well said, and absolutely agree with you. After a while, I think we’ll actually find out that forgiveness IS the easiest thing to do. There’s no use tainting your heart and being with grudges, because it’ll only hurt us and no one else. We think we’re hurting the other person by holding grudges, when in fact the other person would not care less…and we’re the only one suffering! Hatred takes too much precious energy.

“For me, the utmost thing in life is to find your own happiness…. and hope that others will be happy that you have obtained your happiness.”

Bingo.

[Cyril]
Thanks for the compliment. Yay!! BINGO! =)

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